You never know whom you just might inspire today or whom you may be inspired by. These last few months I have seen nothing but unconditional support from other woman all over social media. I love seeing others who struggle with self love finally open up about their feelings with complete strangers. It brings so much joy into my life when I hear or see these stories.
One of the biggest influencers for me has been am amazon woman named Meg Boggs. She is an inspirational blogger and is an absolute delight to follow. She started a really great moving called ‘This is postpartum’ and it starts again November 6th, 2018. Post a photo of your Postpartum story and use the hashtag: #this_is_postpartum or #thisispostpartum
FOLLOW HER ON INSTAGRAM @meg.boggs
Or check her out here
There is nothing more refreshing than seeing a variety of women going through the exact same things I am, yet we all look different.
There is not one way to parent.
There is not one way to look.
There is not one way to feel.
There is not one way to be happy.
There is not one way to cry.
There is not one way to struggle.
There is not one way to recover.
There is not one way to see beauty.
There is a myriad of ways to do everything in this beautiful world. Stop judging other on how they take on life’s journey. Everyone has their own story and we all get the beautiful opportunity to live that story how ever we choose.
Share your postpartum story this year using hashtag
#this_is_postpartum or #thisispostpartum
Can’t wait to see the outpour this year!!!
Happy first birthday my Benjamin
It has been 365 days since you were in my tummy. Its been 365 days since it was just you and I together. It’s been 365 days since I could completely protect you from the outside world. This past year has been such a great adventure for your dad and I. We are so in love with the little man you are becoming. Your silly personality and short temper are showing more each day. We can’t believe an entire year has already passed.
This year has been full of diapers, kisses, cuddles, watching movies, tears, lots of laughs and plenty of sleepless nights. Watching you learn how to roll over and crawl have been so amazing. We even got to hear you say “dada” and it brought tears to our eyes. You are growing up so fast and we wish time would just stand still for a moment.
As soon as they laid you on my chest, I was so nervous and excited all at the same time. I became your mother and you became my son. We had already started to grow our love for you before you were even born, but as soon as you arrived, we just knew you would be our new focus and love.
You had so many firsts this year and I cannot wait to see how you will continue to grow this next year. I can remember your first smile and your first time eating solid foods. You are such a strong little spirit and we absolute adore everything about you.
We know you have such a bright future ahead of you and we will be there for you every step of the way. You are going to do big things and we cannot wait to witness your succeed.
We love you so much baby boy.
Love always and forever,
Nope, they will probably not remember a single bit of the festivities, but this is more of a photo opportunity and a scary realization for you as a parent that your little baby is growing up.
There are a few things you can do to make this day as stress free as possible. Sure, go ahead and hire an event planner and spend a fortune on the celebration. I am not about wasting money so lets break it down as cheap as possible!
Tip #1 Depending on your little ones birthday, maybe pick a theme that is after a major holiday.
Halloween – monster theme
Easter – Little bunnies
Christmas – Stars or snow themes
4th of July – Red, white or blue themes party
Thanksgiving- Pumpkin or fall leaf theme
This will allow for decorations to be clearance or on sale so you can snag them for the big day as cheap as possible.
Tip #2 DIY Decorations
Pinterest is a great place to find DIY options for party decorations. If you find some great ideas, go to the dollar stores to find the supplies. They tend to have plenty of craft supplies to recreate anything you find. Make everything at home by using old boxes or digging through your recycle bins.
Tip #3 Find some good food options in your budget
You can plan the party to work around the type of food you have. If you have the party from 2-4 then you may not need to provide lunch or dinner. It’s a part of the day that doesn’t require anything to be served besides finger foods. If you pick a lunchtime, try to do a build you own sandwich bar. It’s a cheap way to give people the option to customize their meals. If you pick a dinnertime option, try to do a crock-pot theme. You can plan it ahead of time and it will stay warm throughout the party. Plus, crock pot dishes tend to be on the cheaper side of foods.
Tip #4 Pre-take photos
Odds are, you will not be able to stage too many pictures to remember the big first birthday. Don’t stress! Take photos a week or so before the party. This will ensure you get the cute photos you want without making everyone stop the party. Plus, you can enjoy the real party without forgetting the memories.
Tip #5 Don’t worry about cleaning the house
It’s going to get messy and no one will notice. I first was stressing about getting the house in order, but then I realized that people were not coming to check out my unwashed floors. They were there to see the big boy on his special day so don’t worry, no one will care that you kitchen table it full of mail and unfolded clothes.
Tip #6 The Cake
Find a local bakery or even an independent pastry chef on Swip Swap to make your cute cake. I was able to find a local woman who did our cake for only $40; which is cheap compared to some of these fancy locations who wanted to charge over $150 for a 6 inch cake. Also, I got our cupcakes made at our local grocery store. You may not believe it but the bakery at your grocery stores will work with you on any kind of project you are looking to do. I was able to bring in a photo of the cupcakes I wanted and they were all excited to be able to get creative. They were amazing and SO affordable! $5.00 for a dozen!
Tip #7 Birthday gift ideas
Odds are, your little one has plenty of toys and you are not really looking to expand your toy pile in the corner of your living room. You pick them of 238854 times a day so maybe see if there is another option for your guests. Asking for money can be awkward, but it can be done is a polite way. Let your guests know that your little one will take money to go toward their college fund or savings account. See if your guess would do a book collection rather than toys. There are also a lot of great subscription services that would be nice to have for your baby. There are food, clothes and educational subscription services that would be a good fit over another doll or truck.
Tip #8 Enjoy the Day
Just like this past year, your baby’s big day is going to go by fast. Enjoy the moments with family and friends who are there to celebrate with you. Let everyone know how much you appreciate them coming out to celebrate. Sit down and enjoy a plate of the food you paid for as well as a cold beer or nice glass of wine because you deserve it!
How did you plan for your little ones first birthday party? What theme did you go with?
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I'm Kristyn from sunny Peoria, Arizona. I'm married to my amazing husband Jeremy and I'm a mother to our incredible son Benjamin. I love inspiring and empowering others to see their true beauty and fight against the stigmas that society has created about beauty.